Activity: Write a post on her facebook page or twitter or anywhere else public that her friends will see telling her how happy she makes you.
Ok it started off with a real easy one. It took only about a minute to go post on her facebook wall. My post - "Just wanted to tell you that you make me the happiest guy in the world. I love you babe!"
Now I didn't even get a response on this. No comment back on facebook. No "awe that was sweet" after she read it. Not even any recognition that she even saw it. But that's ok. The point of these activities isn't to have each one make a huge impact. The point is for each one to make her smile a little even is she doesn't acknowledge it. And by the end of the 30 days everything you've done as a collection will make a huge impact.